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Below are 20 topics and interesting questions to help you keep the conversation flowing like a fine wine. Social interaction can be taxing on many of us. You might overthink what to do with your hands, or if you have something in your teeth. Is your laugh weird? Is she making a face at you? Did that pause go on for way too long? Some men are natural Casanovas and can strike up a conversation with any girl. Then, there are the men that have all the confidence but none of the skill. Fortunately, there are ways to avoid some of the anxieties that accompany socializing with someone new, or someone you want to get to know better.
Think of it as a universal cheat sheet for conversations. All you need to do is remember some of these topics below to help steer the conversation. Some of your most fond memories stem from this time, some other memories might be more embarrassing. Have some fun with a girl and talk about your childhood. Maybe you both share a hilarious prepubescent moment or a playground disaster you can laugh about today. Reminiscing about childhood together will help ease your tensions and make you seem more relatable. So, whether you see this girl as a friend or something more, your childhood memories are a safe way to establish a rapport.
A grown man talking about how much he loves spending time with his grandmother or visiting his parents in his free time can be extremely endearing.
Make sure to find out if the two of you share any mutual friends or acquaintances. Having mutual friends will offer more chances in the future for the two of you to talk. Try to talk about broader work-related topics such as mentioning a new lunch spot close by or bringing up some positive office gossip. Of course, if you meet a girl outside of work, you can and should still ask about her work and talk about yours. Work discussions can help reveal a lot about a person. For example, if your work schedules are incompatible, then you know the relationship will be difficult to pursue.
Now is the time to talk about that job you had in college as an art model, or maybe when you accidentally sent your boss a meme instead of a pdf. Talking about where and when you went to school is a great way to bond with a girl. Higher education is where most people really find themselves and often share similar experiences in doing so. Whether you attended the same institution as the girl in question or not, it should be easy to relate to her with stories of your college years.
Talk about roommates and dorm life. Maybe you know some of the same people. Compare notes on legendary campus stories.
Take time to find out where she likes to hangout. You can learn more about her interests or discover somewhere new to spend your time. If she spends her time at local parks you then know she enjoys the outdoors. Finding out you both go to the same bar for after work drinks could be a great way to hangout again. Knowing you have similarities in how and where you enjoy spending your time is going to allow for a much more seamless start to your relationship or friendship. Show your amazing observational skills by bringing up your present surroundings! But for real, if you feel the conversation is dying down you can easily talk about the here and now.
You can also use this to start talking to a girl you have yet to introduce yourself to. Offer her a suggestion on a good drink or pastry. When you start to feel your conversation with a girl dying down a bit you can always bring up current events. No need to take it the political route quite yet, unless you enjoy the idea of a potential debate. You can easily stay impartial when discussing the worlds current state of affairs. Stick to current events that are more positive or topics that anyone can relate to in order to avoid any deeper discussions you might not be ready for.
Discussing preferential forms of entertainment will certainly help a conversation remain afloat. Offer some recommendations and express interest in what she recommends to you. Favorite movies and music say a lot about someone. When people find others that enjoy the same forms of entertainment that they enjoy strong connections develop. Feel free to discuss the last novel you read or last concert you went to.
There might even be a chance to make plans together in the future to do something fun that you both enjoy. Talking about travel is a broad topic that can cover a lot of ground in a conversation. Discussing travel can be enlightening and entertaining. She might have some exciting experiences, or she could enjoy listening to you share your own experiences. Talk about your five-year plans, or even take it the sci-fi route and imagine up the future of the planet together. Asking her a broad question will give the two of you a chance to have a discussion rather than simply answering yes or no. Conversation is a two-way street after all.
So, help keep the conversation from stagnating by asking some of these questions. You can learn more about how to spends her free time and what she does to relax by asking her about her hobbies. Pets are an important subject to broach. However, if both of you have pets or plan to later in life this could be a fun segue into a full-on conversation about the future! Show an interest in her personal life by asking about her family. Does she have any siblings? Is she close to her parents? Find out how your family lives compare.
Open ended questions about family are great to have in your back pocket. You can easily slide a family related question into a lull in conversation. The answers can also tell you a lot about another person. This is an easy way to learn about more personal topics without directly asking those deeper questions. You can gauge how religious she is depending on which holidays she celebrates without diving too deep into a sensitive subject for some. If you go all out for any particular holiday you can be specific and ask her what she thinks of it. Perhaps she loves Halloween. Test your compatibility with questions about pet peeves.
Get her to list off what grinds her gears. Maybe the two of you can find common ground based on what drives both of you crazy. You can always take the opposite route and ask her about what she hates to love. Asking her about her guilty pleasures and admitting to some of your own will easily keep both of you laughing.
Most people have an unbelievable, completely bizarre, experience at some point in life. It could be a mysterious incidence or a surreal celebrity encounter. For some, playing armchair psychologist or astrologist is a serious affair. Others just enjoy Dungeons and Dragons. Asking her about her zodiac or digging a bit deeper into one of the many personality assessments is an entertaining way to find out more about a person.
You can easily turn some small talk into a full-on bonding session.
Everyone has a favorite cheesy joke! Initial conversations with a girl should stay fun. Keep the energy level positive by telling some ridiculous jokes. The harder someone roles their eyes the better. Even the most pretentious of music aficionados malfunction when asked on the spot to list what music they listen to. If you like her and want to talk to her more you have to make it known.
This question requires some follow-up. Pick a specific day that works for her and make concrete plans. Hopefully after reading this article you feel ready to wow a girl with your banter. Let us know your favorite tip or your own go to topics. Recognizing the value of the do-it-yourself movement of the last several years, thecoolist.
Home Life. School Talking about where and when you went to school is a great way to bond with a girl. Favorite Hangout Spots Take time to find out where she likes to hangout. Your Present Surroundings Show your amazing observational skills by bringing up your present surroundings!
Current Events When you start to feel your conversation with a girl dying down a bit you can always bring up current events. Entertainment Discussing preferential forms of entertainment will certainly help a conversation remain afloat. Travel Talking about travel is a broad topic that can cover a lot of ground in a conversation. The Future! Lengthen the Conversation Last Words Hopefully after reading this article you feel ready to wow a girl with your banter. You might also like.
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