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I did everything I could to make her happy. I tried to solve her problems. I tried to be a good father to her children. I tried to be a better man than the other men in her past. I tried to be the best lover she had ever had. I put her needs ahead of mine. In spite of everything I did for her, it never seemed enough.
I could never seem to make her happy. She was frequently moody and would lash out at me, seemingly without provocation. Our sex life sucked. My resentment grew, but I kept it all inside. I just kept trying harder to do whatever it would take to make her happy and get her to give me the love, appreciation, and sex I so deeply desired. I began to learn about things like boundaries, self-care, self-soothing, and honesty.
I came to realize that the road map I had been using my entire life was extremely flawed and incapable of helping me get what I wanted. It was like I was trying to navigate my away around Seattle with a map of San Francisco.
I was sure the map was accurate, but no matter how hard I tried, it never got me to my desired destination. As my personal awareness increased, an interesting thing happened. I began to notice other men who seemed to be a lot like me. Then there were the single guys. These guys helped out and listened to women talk about their problems.
Over time I came to see, that like me, the road map of these passively pleasing men unconsciously influenced every area of their lives. Nice Guys are dependent on external validation and avoid conflict like the plague. If I am a good guy, then everyone will love me and like me and people I desire will desire me. If I do everything right, then I will have a smooth, problem-free life. These covert contracts operate at an unconscious level.
He is the friend who will do anything for anybody, but whose own life seems to be in shambles. He is the guy who frustrates his wife because he is so afraid of conflict that nothing ever gets resolved. He is the boss who tells one person what they want to hear, then reverses himself to please someone else. He is the man who lets people walk all over him because he doesn't want to rock the boat. He is the man whose life seems so under control, until BOOM, one day he does something to destroy it all.
Nice guys put other people's needs and wants before their own. Nice guys sacrifice their personal power and often play the role of a victim.
Nice guys tend to be disconnected from other men and from their own masculine energy. Nice guys co-create relationships that are less than satisfying. Nice guys create situations in which they do not have very much good sex. Nice guys frequently fail to live up to their full potential. If one man can confront and overcome his Nice Guy issues and get what he wants in love, sex, and life, so can you.
I know the way. Through trial and error, I have found a more accurate road map. Now, twenty-five plus years after first beginning my journey of exploration, I can attest that there is hope and recovery from the Nice Guy Syndrome. I have a great life. I love my job. I live in Puerto Vallarta, MX. I have a great relationship.
I have good friends. I am enjoying success as an entrepreneur. I am changing the world. I have had the privilege of being part of the recovery process with thousands of Nice Guys. Are you ready to put your intention into action and start getting what you want in love, sex, and life? Glover has created to help men get what they want in love, sex, and life.
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Launched inthe No More Mr. Get the support you need to break free from the Nice Guy Syndrome. Werner, El Granada, CA. Amy Alkonaka, "The Advice Goddess". Home Dr. In the early 90s I had a crisis. I was about two years into my second marriage. I thought I had found the woman of my dreams. Yet I was frequently frustrated and resentful toward the woman I loved. I avoided conflict and withheld any information — including my feelings and wants — that I thought might rock the boat or start a fight. I lied, and I hid things. I sought external validation from other women. Married men I worked with in my practice as a marriage therapist were making the same kind of statements about their partners that I had been making about mine:.
Is that asking too much? I have led up to five No More Mr. Nice Guy groups a week, lead seminars and workshops all over the world, taught online classes, and wrote the book, No More Mr. Nice Guy Running Press, Robert Glover. Author of No More Mr. No More Mr.
Nice Guy, The Book. Do you give more than you get? Do you avoid conflict and keep the peace? Do you try and get people to like you? Are you feeling sexually frustrated? Are you living up to your potential? Do people walk on you and take advantage of you? Do you lack purpose and passion? : No Spam! We Promise. Nice GuyI was convinced Dr. Glover had followed me around for 30 years documenting my life story.
I've read the book several times and even bought the audio book! After going through a divorce, I purchased Dr. Glover's dating and relationship podcasts and they continue to change my life. I'll never be able to thank Robert enough for life saving material. Nice Guy has taken the world by storm.
My regret is not having read it 30 yrs. This was truly one of the best books I have ever read. I see hope now. I originally purchased the book out of curiosity more than anything else but, WOW! You could simply replace 'Mr.
Nice Guy' every time you see it in the book with my name and you would be pretty accurate. I want to thank you in advance for the changes that are coming. I think it's going to be a lot of work but worth it. Your book helped me jump into the manager position. Glover has been an incredible mentor and life coach since being introduced to him in my early college years. After I got the courage to pick up the book, No More Mr. Nice Guy truly opened my eyes. The book was practically a movie script that I was able to see my past and current life drama play out on.
I have had several 1-on-1 sessions with Robert and attended a men's group for help in my dating life. I developed my own music booking company and a career as a live performer in Seattle. Now I'm married to my soulmate and have created a beautiful baby boy and a life adventure with her. Glover inspired me to intentionally transform my life with my actions and create the kick-ass life I live now.
Thank you Robert for sharing your experiences and leading me and other men into the light of our own greatness. There's no better gift then being true to who you are and sharing yourself with the world. I promise.
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