Woman married no strings

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The other day, I found myself excitedly planning several things I wanted to do to surprise my husband. If I surprise him by washing and vacuuming out the car, maybe, just maybehe would surprise me with a Starbucks coffee on his way home from work. God quickly revealed to me that this is one of the issues in dating and marriage relationships. We often do things so we can receive back. We often do things so they can be marked off a checklist rather than our hearts genuinely desiring to serve and sacrifice for our spouse.

Jesus showed us, on numerous sthe ultimate example of loving others and sacrificing without the intent of having favors returned. He loves wholeheartedly, sacrificially, compassionately, and purely. What an example to apply to marriage and relationships in general.

Too often, we focus on all of the things we are doing within the walls of our marriage that we forget to look up to see the sacrifices that our spouse makes. We want our spouse to invite us on dates, send us flowers just because, thank us for all of our hard work, appreciate our child-rearing, yet we forget that marriage is two-sided.

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Marriage IS sacrifice. God desires our hearts to be so focused on Him that we desire to serve our spouse nonstop. Instead of hoping my husband returns the favor when I go out of my way to serve him, I need to be more focused on my intent to serve. On who I am really doing it for. If my intent is self-seeking, then my heart is in the wrong place and will probably not produce the I am looking for or rather, the God hopes and plans for my marriage. Selfless acts of service can change the entire theme of our households.

It has unlimited and unending ripple effects. It will change the dynamics of the relationship with our spouse, it will change the way we parent, and it will change the way our children view service, marriage, and a relationship with Christ. The are limitless.

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To serve is to demonstrate deep, genuine love. An overlooked element that is crucial to our marriages and the no-strings-attached mindset are the words that come out of our mouths and what we communicate with our body language. Speaking life to and about our spouse will change the course of how we serve one another within the walls of our marriage.

Are we always negative when we communicate with our spouse? Do we always have to point out the things they do wrong when they try to serve us?

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Do we make them feel like they are never doing enough? Do we tear down everything they try to do? Positive, life-giving, healing words can change the entire course of our hearts, marriage, and home. Today, I challenge you to me in taking steps toward serving and speaking to our spouses with a no-strings-attached mindset.

We should serve, not because we want something in return, but because our hearts, minds, and actions want to embody the likeness of Christ within the walls of our marriage.

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Tagged: communicationgracehealinglovemarriage. About Lizzy Christian. Lizzy Christian is a toddler-chasing, coffee-sipping, firefighter wife, and vacuuming enthusiast who has a passion for writing.

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Lizzy married her high school sweetheart and together they have a son and a daughter. Visit www. December 7, August 31, August 29, Our Vision Contributors Contact Write. About Lizzy Christian Lizzy Christian is a toddler-chasing, coffee-sipping, firefighter wife, and vacuuming enthusiast who has a passion for writing. You may also like

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